What do you do when you and your sister have grown kids and nieces and nephews, who we dearly love and see all the time online, but not as often as we want #IRL? What if many of us will be celebrating major decade birthday milestones in the coming year, from 30- 70? (BTW- the upcoming 70 birthday is not me! Not that there’s anything wrong with 70!) And what if this sister is generous and creative?